powerful lesson.
5. The burden of an unpayable emotional debt
When love is perceived as overwhelming or rooted in sacrifice, some children experience a sense of debt they feel incapable of repaying. To escape the weight of that guilt, they downplay what they received: “It wasn’t that much,” or “It was just their responsibility.”
In doing so, love shifts from a freely given bond to an obligation. And when love feels compulsory, rejection can arise—not from a lack of affection, but from the pressure of feeling indebted.
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